1. "{…}
    I have been taught to save parts of myself for others. My thoughts, they say, mean more when they are unvocalized. My body, I’ve been taught, is a greater gift when I keep it hidden away. I am better swallowed, kept apart, not listened to, not shared, not publicized, stuck in the shadows, invisible, forgotten. I have learned to sit down, stay quiet, and always cross my legs. I have learned how to speak only when spoken to. I know how to be silent. I know how to be sweet. I have had extensive lessons in both. But I do not know how to be me."
    — Saving Myself | Lora Mathis (via hiceuncollage)

    Saving myself Lora Mathis

    (via lora-mathis)

    Tagged #lora mathis
     
  2. themuslimavenger:

    “My heart is so small it’s almost invisible.
    How can You place such big sorrows in it?

    "Look," He answered,
    your eyes are even smaller,
    yet they behold the world.”

    ― Rumi

    (via essential-light)

     

  3. "I used to walk into a room full of people and wonder if they liked me… now I look around and wonder if I like them."
    — (via l-unaticus)

    (Source: wnq-writers, via inhalexexhalex)

     

  4. "It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. The whole world is in our own minds. Learn to see things in the proper light."
    — 

     Swami Vivekananda (via allegorys)

    (Source: lebunnydoll-forest, via farahmustafaa)

     
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  6. "I don’t think people love me. They love versions of me I have spun for them, versions of me they have construed in their minds. The easy versions of me, the easy parts of me to love."
    — (via chuckhansen)

    (Source: wordsthat-speak, via eattttme)

     
  7. pastperspectives:

    guys… it’s a palm tree.

    (Source: thesacredword, via clestroying)

     
  8. diylover89:

    DIY room decor ideas for summer!! Colorful & fun!! :D

     
     

  9. "

    1) A boy telling you you’re pretty won’t make you see the beauty in the fullness of your cheeks, in redness of your lips at 2 in the morning when tequila is making the bar bathroom spin. He can’t take away the ugliness that you see in yourself, you have to do that.

    2) You have to be ready to hear someone say they love you. You have to be ready, and you have to be willing, and you have to listen. Because sometimes, they won’t say those three words, they’ll put a blanket over you while you’re watching a movie, they’ll kiss your cheek when they think you’re asleep, they’ll smile when they see you first thing in the morning. But you, you have to be willing to see it, feel it, let it in. Letting someone love you takes practice.

    3) Don’t make compromises you can’t live with. Compromise is a different version of what you want, not a whole other Universe.

    4) Learn to say no. No - to a movie you don’t want to watch; no - to sex you don’t want to have, no- to a relationship that’s driving you mad. Say no - to things that hurt you, to people that extinguish your fire, to jobs you hate and places that are desolate. There are bad things that we can’t control, bad things that happen and we are sucked into and have to feel with every fibre of our being, but the rest - learn to distance yourself, learn to say no.

    5) Don’t expect people to walk through fire for you - not your parents, not your friends, not the person you’re in love with. Love doesn’t mean sacrifice, love shouldn’t mean sacrifice. Don’t expect someone to give away pieces of them, so they could fit you better. And don’t feel hurt when they refuse to - it’s self-preservation. Instead - learn from them. Do it as well.

    6) Don’t tether yourself to people. Learn to make connections, to love, with both your feet steady on the ground. Learn to let people pass through your life; like a summer breeze, not a storm that’s just been unleashed.

    7) Learn the difference between growth and growing up before it’s too late. Rooftops and water fights and ice cream for breakfast can be a part of your life at 10, 25, or 35. But by the time you’re 35 you need to learn to say enough, to be able to walk away, you need to be able to love yourself. Love yourself the way you loved yourself at 10, before the world had a chance to fill your head with ugliness.

    "
    — m.v., The list of things I learned before turning 22, pt.1 (via thirtyfirstjuly)

    (via 69shadesofbullshit)

     
  10. diaemyung:

    Don’t call me when you’re taking a shit. 

    (via feldrian)